This post is not about how to create a perfect relationship with another person. It is not even about how to use the Law of Attraction to attract a better one with another human. Nor it is about how to manifest love in your life.
Don’t run away!
I have what you need. 🙂
Everything you are going to read here is about how to use the Law of Attraction to create or manifest a new relationship or to improve an existing one with your:
- a family member
- your friend
- your cat or dog
- with your neighbors
- your business
- boss at work
- your own body and health
- as well as with everything you see when you turn your head around
A Few Lines About Love – The Sweetest Vibration
You see, the Law of Attraction is such a beautiful concept when you fully understand its ESSENCE.
It goes beyond your five physical senses.
It goes beyond words, my friend.
The Universe responds to vibrations, and the one you are looking for is LOVE.
I will give my best to describe the process which is larger than words in a proper step by step manner with the hope that it will help you to manifest a perfect relationship with whatever you want in your life.
You see, my friend, love and faith are the most significant, most affecting, unseen powers in this world.
These two are a universal language which everyone speaks, no matter what country or nationality.
Love and faith are the strongest vibrations of them all.
Human beings who vibrate on a frequency of love can attract everything in their life.
When understood and harnessed, this beautiful vibration is going to be the only tool you will ever need in your life.
The Universe will become at your service in every life endeavor when you learn how to harness this great emotion.
Everyone and everything will become attractive because you are attractive.
People will come to you to admire and look up.
You will radiate with warmth and joy which will be irresistible.
Things and circumstances will look for you, instead of another way around.
Everything in your life will improve in a massive way!
The world is going to become a much more beautiful place because you are a beautiful person.
I could go on for hours and hours writing about this sweet melody of the heart, but I think I have exhausted the epithets to stick on to this smooth emotion which we are capable of feeling.
Therefore, let’s begin with it already!
In this post, I will talk about two different scenarios when it comes to using the Law of Attraction for relationships.
I will show you how to create a new one as well as how to recover or improve an existing relationship.
Use the Law of Attraction to Manifest a Perfect New Relationship
Love can be complicated, or it can be made simple.
Many people, sadly, complicate creating new relationships.
Some people even try to manipulate the process.
I have to admit that I was one of those people who was doing everything wrong up until the moment of realizing what the catch was.
And there is a catch in attracting perfect relationships to your life.
With these three steps, I will help you to catch the catch and discover or even rediscover a world of love once again.
1.) Learn More About Yourself, Start Loving You More
Ok, the first step in finding a perfect new person to spend your time with and possibly share some love is to find out more about yourself.
To attract a specific person in life, you must first connect with yourself and stop waiting for something or someone from outside to come and save you.
You must love yourself first!
People who are sitting and waiting for things to happen for them will sit there forever.
We even have names for them, but I don’t want to speak about that.
Now, I know you are not the one who sits and waits because you are here, looking and searching for the ways and means on how to use the Law of Attraction for relationships and I will help you.
I was left alone at one point in my life because I was not able to love myself, as well as because I was an idiot.
You see, at those moments everyone and everything just disappeared from my life.
Ironically, I was blaming everything except myself.
It took me some time, as well as a couple of amazing pieces of advice from a few of the experts on the topic, to recover and realize that I was the one to blame. That I am the one who I should start to love again.
Step by step I did so.
I was looking at myself in my bathroom mirror and saw something.
You know, I saw an ugly person, even though I was considered not to be the one by other people.
I couldn’t stand the man in the reflection, but that reflection gave me an idea!
You see, I walked out and went to a barbershop and got a new haircut.
Then I grew a beard because it is my life long wish to have a long manly beard. 🙂
I started to exercise more and eat healthier.
Also, I got my hands on some great personal development material which helped me to create a better mental image of myself.
With the help that I have got from books and a few programs, I managed to clean out and reshape my mind as well.
I got rid of some wrong beliefs and habits and successfully replaced them with a bunch of healthy ones.
Step by step I became a better version of myself, and now, when I look at the bathroom mirror, I see a much lovelier image in the reflection.
As a result of my little transformation, I was able to attract much more attractive people to my life.
If you want to attract someone who you consider to be attractive, I would suggest you to start being honest with yourself and admit your shortcomings first.
Then decide to change them one by one, improve and fall in love in yourself!
No one can love a person who does not like himself.
2.) Slowly Start Acting Like a New Better You
To plant this new self-image to your subconscious mind which is the primary objective here, you will have to start acting like a new and better version of yourself.
Maybe you will have to do some small change in the way you see yourself, or you will have to do a complete makeover as I did.
Whatever you decide to do, make sure that you continuously repeat the action based on your new self-image.
As I have said, I grew a beard among other things. 🙂
It was a long process to get it right and to fall in love with this new face in the mirror reflection, but it paid off in dividends.
I took care of my beard for a long time until I got it right.
It was a small yet drastic change which helped me to fall in love in my self again.
You don’t have to grow a beard, especially not if you are a girl, haha, but some subtle change in your facial expression is recommended.
Get a new haircut or a new hair color.
Only make sure that you firmly decide that you are going to stick with it before you implement the action and don’t change your decision until you are happy.
I can give you a few more pieces of advice while I am at it.
If you don’t like the way your dress, then throw out the clothes you think it is repulsive and start dressing more attractively.
If you think your car is making you less attractive, then sell it and buy a new one.
Some of us have a weight problem.
If you think you are overweight or too thin, a few months in a gym and a healthy diet plan can make a whole new person!
You see, a constant time and space repetition is the crucial step in the whole process, so don’t do it one day and then stop for three days.
Make sure you stick to your decision as long as you have to until you feel confident in your own body.
It is a must!
Now, you know how to start loving you, so let’s move our attention from you, and place it on a person you wish to see by your side.
3.) Find Out What Kind of Person You Want to Attract
The third step in using the Law of Attraction for a new relationship is to seek out and find out what type of the person would you like to attract.
Please, take this step most seriously as well because it is magical.
Start using your imagination the way you should and imagine that new person you want to attract.
Think about what does he or she likes to do.
Even though you don’t know this person yet, you are allowed and recommended to daydream and fantasize about your perfect man or a woman all they long.
You see, it is a key to know what you look in another human because you are also looking at your desires.
Would you like to attract someone who is smart and reads books?
Or someone who is layback and like video games?
Maybe a cool person who wants to party?
Or even a silent person who enjoys long walks?
Is your type possibly someone who enjoys adventure and likes to travel the globe?
Is it maybe a person who loves dogs or even cats, or even someone who wants to have children or get married soon?
We can go on and on right now, but I believe that you get my point.
Think about this new person you want to be in a relationship with from all possible angles, try to find out as many details as possible about him or her.
You see, there is a substantial possibility that you already know your type, but you may have buried somewhere in your subconscious mind.
Also, it is of critical importance to do this step correctly because you are creating a mental image which will ensure that at the right time you will recognize your ideal partner when you meet him or her in real life.
This step will ensure that your ideal person is attracted to you or you will be attracted to him or her.
By doing all this, you are using your imagination as it is intended to be used, that is, creatively.
You see, once you meet your ideal person, you will see how much value there is in this step.
Everything you have done so far will fall under one moment, and you will feel it, trust me. 🙂
Therefore, do it right and spend as much as you can contemplating within your mind about the new self and this ideal individual you would like to attract to your life.
The rest of your time, enjoy life and everything it has to offer.
Now, that is all there is to find a love of your life.
It may take a month, a year or even more, but as long as you don’t QUIT, you will win!
I know you will.
Use the Law of Attraction to Recover and Improve an Existing Relationship
We are humans, and we make mistakes.
Those mistakes which are most of the time stupid and unconscious can cost us losing the love of the people we care about.
I assume that some people who are reading this have relationships problems.
They want to know how to fix it as well.
You can and you will.
In this case, the Law of Attraction works similarly like in our example from above, only with a few tweaks.
I remember reading this example of a woman who was about to divorce from her husband.
However, she did not want to do so; the divorce was a wish of her partner because he felt that the love is lost.
The couple was married for a long time, and of course that they have lost a connection with each other after all those years in marriage.
This woman was intelligent enough to seek a bit of advice before she decided to accept her husband’s proposition.
She meets a man who was an expert when it comes to positive thinking as well as the science about the Law of Attraction.
The man gave her a few award-winning pieces of advice to save her marriage.
She listened to him.
At the end of the story, she managed to save her relationship with her husband somehow.
Now, the procedure the man told her to apply can be applied to everything.
I have used the same method to recover the relationship with my family, and I am more than convinced that it works.
All it takes some time to do it as well as patience until it happens.
In my case, it took me around one year to recover the love lost.
1.) Give Your Loved One and Yourself Some Time and Space
Whenever you find yourself in a relationship problem, and you have no idea how to fix it, your partner or a loved one is mad at you, and you have lost the trust and affection, the best thing to do is give them some time and space.
By doing so, you are giving the same to yourself.
In my opinion, people make mistakes when they try to argue about problems.
You see, arguments will bring only more discussions which can ultimately result in a breakup.
Sadly, in most cases, it indeed does result in abandonment of the relationship, especially in a modern world where pride and ego rule.
However, once you decide to split up for some time, you will get a chance, both you and your loved one, to see where you have made a mistake and what can you do to correct this problem that separates you.
My advice to you is not to think about what they have done wrong to you because whatever they have done to hurt you, you are the one to blame because you have allowed it.
Instead, contemplate about your mistake and find a solution.
I believe that if a person who loves you will do the same thing in their privacy as well.
However, this is the risk you will have to take.
If that person loves you than he or she will do the same thing as you.
In my experience, the only solution is to forgive yourself whatever you may have done wrong.
Don’t hold any resentments or grudges against yourself or anyone else for this matter, forgive everything.
It can be hard sometimes to forget about something that caused the problems in the relationship and caused negative emotions, but forgiveness is an act of the highest order, and it is an antidote for unwanted feelings towards the people that you care about.
Moreover, you can use that time alone to invest in yourself, learn something new, change at least one thing in your makeup.
In other words, improve yourself while you wait!
It can take your mind of resentment, sadness, anger, or any other negative emotion.
When the time is right, you will see how this time alone, if spent well, can change everything.
2.) Slowly Imagine Things Getting Back to Normal
Once you feel like there are no more hard feelings towards the person you once loved as well as towards yourself, start implementing this mental trick.
I found it to be brilliant! 🙂
Whenever you have a chance go and visit, mentally or physically, some places where you had the best time with the person you want to be again.
Use your imagination to revive some of the greatest memories of love you have.
Do this for at least thirty days every day at least twice a day!
Then, start seeing things slowly getting back to normal.
Begin to imagine your relationship coming back to a perfect state or even better, start seeing yourself doing some things that you have always wanted to do with that person, but you never had a chance to do it.
Don’t rush into any action!
You see, this mental trick will help you to recover and improve the emotional bond you once had with that person.
Take as much time you need until you get back the feeling you have lost.
Love is wild and whimsical; it has to be lured, you cann0t force it to come back, it will happen whenever she wants.
For those of you who like animals, you know that you can’t catch any creature by force (except dogs maybe) just because you want it.
The animal comes to you only when it feels the positive vibration and feels it is safe.
The same is with a lost feeling of love.
It has to be sure that every negative emotion that blocks the entrance in your heart is removed.
The catch with this step is in repetition, like with everything else in life.
Therefore, make sure you practice this step a lot until you feel like it is time for the next level.
3.) Start Acting Like it is All Good Again
If you have done everything correctly so far, you should be feeling peaceful and ready to love again.
When you reach this stage, slowly start acting like everything is ok.
Again, I must repeat, do not force anything!
Go about your day doing things you usually do but with a smile on your face and a sincere wish to start all over again.
I am unable to explain in words what happens once you do this because I am still confused with the fact that it works! 🙂
I was able to mess up the things with my parents so bad by making stupid mistakes over and over until they stopped caring about me.
Well, not entirely, but I saw that they don’t give a rats ass about my life anymore.
At first, because I was an idiot, I was blaming them.
However, once I have heard about the same pieces of advice that I am sharing here with you, I was curious to find out do they work or not.
I have moved away and gave them some time to “forget about me.”
While I was alone, I did everything I can to release some negative emotions that have collected within me, as well as to replace them by paying visits to some good memories that I have with my family.
In the meantime, I have removed every lousy habit which was the cause of our breakup, I have improved my life and became a better person.
I saw us talking again for hours, having laughs, and enjoying each others company.
When I tried to reconnect once again, I believe that they saw a new and better me.
Also, they felt that I have no negative emotions blocking the connection, so ultimately, they have accepted me back.
I was not forcing anything to happen.
Instead, I was going by my own business and letting them know that I care to fix things.
The love is like that, you can’t catch it whenever you want.
The bond has to be created or renewed, and that is what happened in my case.
That is also the exact thing that happened in that woman’s case with her marriage.
It will work for everyone who cares at least a little bit to save what can be saved.
Ultimate Law of Attraction Relationship Advice: Relax and Let it Go.
As an end to this Law of Attraction post about how to use the Law for relationships, I want to share one golden piece of advice.
You see, I was the kind of the person who was always trying to control things in my own way, and if they don’t work out the way I wanted, I will try to control even more than before because I have believed that it is the right way.
As a result, I was experiencing massive failure every time.
The Universe can’t be controlled.
Love is one of the most beautiful vibrations of thought, it also cannot be controlled.
However, it can be invited, and if she likes the vibe, she will stay.
The whole process described will work for you, in that I am sure.
You will have to give it as much time it requires to come and become a part of your life without any pressure whatsoever.
Since I have learned how to stay relaxed, control only my mind, and Let Go everything else to the Universe itself, my results have skyrocketed.
That is what I can recommend you as well.
Practice those steps, stay cool, relax, and Let it Go.
Everything will come to you at the perfect time, just wait and see. 🙂
I wish you all the success on your path to a better life.
I hope you are happy and satisfied with the information in this post.
And finally, I will come back to update this post as soon as I find another game-changing Law of Attraction info to share with you.
If you ever need a hand or have any questions, feel free to leave them below, and I will be more than happy to help you out.
All the best,